So I asked earlier a question and mentioned video games...I think it's funny so many people tell me to "get rid of the games" or "Don't let him play". They also told me to tell him what chores to do. I have friends who tell there husbands what they can do and what they have to do. Am I the only one who does not want to raise another child? Do most spouses tell each other what they can do? How do you stop someone from doing something they like? Everytime I have to ask him to do chores I feel like his mom. I don't want to be his mom, I love being a mom to our kids, not him.
Would love advice from other mature married people.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:43 PM on Apr. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by TMJ121099 at 5:47 PM on Apr. 27, 2009
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Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 5:56 PM on Apr. 27, 2009
Niether of us tells the other what to do; we partners not each others parent. I don't agree with any adult that thinks they should tell another adult what to do (and I mean ANYBODY: Parent with grown child, friends, significant others, co-workers, etc.) Unless, one is the boss and the other is the subordinate, or one is paying the other for a service. I just think adults should find other ways of interacting, resolving issues, & communicating.
Answer by BubbaLuva at 5:58 PM on Apr. 27, 2009
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