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How do you feel when a man refers to his dw as "the wife"?

So your guy is taking to his friends and he says something like the wife is mad at me. Or >>>The wife just had a baby. Or>>>How is the wife?

Do you mind when men depersonalize it when speaking about you.
If you do or don't...why? And why do you think they do it?

 
Nathskitten

Asked by Nathskitten at 10:00 PM on Apr. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • Old ball and chain would annoy me more, it kinda makes me feel like im the one who wears the pants when he refers to me as "the wife" lol but ive heard one of his friends sit there and say "ya my bitch did this and my bitch did that" now thats OFFENSIVE!!! I flew off the handle when I heard jeff say that
    Breezy1988

    Answer by Breezy1988 at 10:37 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • It's better than 'old lady.'
    MommyDumDum

    Answer by MommyDumDum at 10:02 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • No..because I would be his wife. It's the same thing as saying My husband works at the car place or me and my husband are in a fight.
    sarapurser

    Answer by sarapurser at 10:02 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • i agree with Mommy DumDum it is WAY better than the Old Lady!!!
    brittanybell

    Answer by brittanybell at 10:03 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • Nope, don't bother me none. He calls me his ol' lady
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 10:05 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • ya i'd be upset if it was "my old lady" or "my ball and chain" but the wife, is the same as like sarapurser said, saying my husband or something along those lines.
    vabchmommy

    Answer by vabchmommy at 10:05 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • It doesn't bother me at all, my Dh calls me "Wife" sometimes and it is just sweet. I call him Husband. "The wife" isn't as sweet, but still wouldn't bother me. "The old ball and chain" would drive me bats, unless it was somehow part of a running joke of ours. Which some very odd things are..... LOL
    Collinsky

    Answer by Collinsky at 10:21 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • same reason they say "I'll meet you at the Walmart"
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:35 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • I wouldn't mind it. It's not rude or belittleling like some of the other names mentioned. To my knowledge, my dh refers to me by my name when speaking to others...
    goldenfox

    Answer by goldenfox at 10:41 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

  • I don't mind that but I hate being called the old lady
    mom2fivekids579

    Answer by mom2fivekids579 at 10:55 PM on Apr. 27, 2009

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