Here are some support groups I found:
While it is hard to learn that your beautiful baby isn't "perfect" (mine had a heart problem) - you should try to focus on everything else... dreams of that first smile, first laugh, first word, those beautiful eyes, tiny hands, soft hair. You will be grieving the loss of your "perfect" dream for a while (and yes, it is grief) but remember he will be a wonderful baby boy, will run and play with the best of them, and will make you proud as he grows up.
at 4:17 PM on Apr. 29, 2009