LEGALLY WE ARE STILL MARRIED, BUT BEEN SEPERATED FOR 8 YEARS. HE HASN'T SEEN MY KIDS IN 7 YEARS. HE WAS INTO DRUGS, AND LET HIS GIRLFRIEND CONTROL HIM. HE IS NOW IN PRISON AND IS SUPPOSE TO BE GETTING OUT IN JULY. HE HAS CALLED MORE TO TALK TO MY 12 YR. OLD DAUGHTER, MY SON WONT TALK TO HIM. HE WANTS TO COME SEE THEM WHEN HE GETS OUT. MY SON HAS ALREADY SAID HE WOULD KILL HIM IF HE EVER SEEN HIM AGAIN. MY SON IS 14. MY DAUGHTER HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE SHE DON'T WEANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH HIM, BUT WANTS TO SEE HIM AND HER HALF BROTHER AND SISTERS. SO MY QUESTION IS WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF THE FATHER OF YOUR KIDS WANTED TO SEE THEM AFTER 7 YEARS? HELP PLEASE!!Answer Question
You sound like you need a lawyer. Those children need some counseling before this man demands anything from them or you. Look to the children's advocacy center near you.
Answer by Vivian63 at 9:06 AM on Apr. 30, 2009
Answer by tyfry7496 at 10:30 AM on Apr. 30, 2009
Answer by okc-mom-2 at 12:33 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
I really can't relate, but to answer your question what would you do- I would allow them to see the father with my supervision. Maybe all go out to lunch or something small. I would also tell my 14 year old not to talk like that, that that man is his father and he should rethink his words and that yes he did bad in the past but maybe he should give him a second chance. The father is trying, why can't you try a little too?
Answer by Vanessannd at 1:40 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
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