I've been dating a guy who is going through a custody battle and his children hate me. Initially, they were fine and we got along. After they met me for the first time, they went home and told thir mom aboutme and she encouraged them to be rude and disrespectful towards me. Just recently me he stated that it was not a good idea for me to come around until after the custody battle because as long as I come around, they will inform their "Guardian Ad Litem" (legal child advocate) that they do not want to live with him because of me. Afterwards, he says he will make them deal with me. I feel very awkward around them as if I'm an intruder.
I've never mistreated his children. Their behavior towards me has been a blow and it is begining to take a toll my relationship with my fiance. It is actually enough to make me want to walk away. This is all very new to me. Does anyone have any advice?
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