someone suggested that i write down everything that i want in life and what i want in a man that will make me happy. and what things i have to do to get there. and when i finish with it even if its ten pages long.....never settle for less than i want. then i will know for sure what i really want. (he thinks i am very confused..which i am)
so do you think this will be helpful to me?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:49 PM on Apr. 30, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 11:51 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
Answer by mandaday at 11:54 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
It is good to know what your dreams and goals are but in the real world you seldom get everything you want. Also what we want changes as we age and mature. As far as finding a man that fulfils all you want that just ain't gonna happen. The dream man doesn't exist. If you set your standard too high you may just wind up alone.
So as far as career goals, education goals, things like that yes it is helpful. It will get you moving on a path towards success. As far as people, such as husbands or S.O.'s they very rarely meet all our criteria
Answer by teamquinn at 11:55 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
Answer by alinker at 11:59 PM on Apr. 30, 2009
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