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Is it true??

Is it true that there is a slightly better chance for conception if the male and the female orgasm at the same time??

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Asked by ZammiesMommy at 3:59 AM on May. 1, 2009 in Trying to Conceive

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  • idk if its that important that it happens at the same time....when i o he o's shortly after and idk if you ever felt the contractions but they last alittle bit....GL

    Answer by MiraclesDHappen at 5:20 AM on May. 1, 2009

  • oh and there are probably more women that conceived without an orgasm than with....all those poor women that have never had one :(

    Answer by MiraclesDHappen at 5:21 AM on May. 1, 2009

  • From everything I've read, the male should orgasm first, and then the female, as the contractions of the female orgasm will pull the sperm towards the cervix. But, like pp said, it probably doesn't make much of a difference because plenty of women conceive without orgasms. Good Luck!

    Answer by Erin1108 at 6:48 AM on May. 1, 2009

  • I've never had an orgasm, but I've been pregnant 3 times in the last 4 years.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • sorry anon:30! you should try it sometime!
    so i have read that woman goes first it can create a better environment (CM) for the sperm.
    the shettles method suggests that going at or neat the same time, especially on ov day, is supposed to help conceive a boy. and a couple days before Ov and the woman not o'ing better chance for girl.
    that is just what shettles method suggests. google it, if you want more info.

    Answer by codysmama2609 at 4:50 PM on May. 1, 2009

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