Last year I made a huge mistake and cheated on my SO with his brother. We talked about it and agreed it was really stupid of us and vowed to never do it again. We remained friends though. But lately all the feelings I had for him are coming back! I know I can never be with him, I love my SO but it seems like a different kind of love. His brother makes me feel things I don't usually feel. I keep telling myself over and over to forget about him, but I can't stop thinking about him. My stomach is so tied up in knots, it's making me sick. We've talked about this before and confessed we really care about each other but agreed nothing could ever happen between us again. My SO wants us to all get together for the Memorial day weekend and I told him I'm not going, just so I don't see his brother. Am I going to have to avoid him forever? I know I'm wrong but I'm so mixed up, i fell like throwing up!
Asked by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on May. 1, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 12:44 PM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:26 AM on May. 1, 2009
how does the saying go? "you made your bed, now you have to lay in it" Is that is? anyway, you know what i mean. So, I'm guessing that your boyfriend does not know that you slept with his brother (how shallow!). I don't know what to tell ya. You may have to avoid him forever. Out of site, out of mind. Also, there are NO excuses for cheating. You should move on & allow your boyfriend to be with someone who respects him, because you don't. If you have such strong feelings for someone else, your not the right gal for him ESPECIALLY if it is so easy for you to do something like sleep with his brother...... that's about as shallow as you can get.
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