I am considering divorcing my husband. It hurts me to even type it but that's what it has come down to. He has become the most selfish person I have ever met. The last 3months of his lay off I have paid the bills, let him do fun stuff while I am at work and gave up asking him to help me around the house while he was at home. He wants,wants,wants. Wants a baby(geez)boat,to build a deck,go to one bbq after another with his buddies and when I asked if we could go do something I wanted to do...he pitched a fit. I can't even initiate sex anymore without him coming up with some reason the timing isn't right. It's his way or no way on everything. I get paid every two weeks and had 107 hours on my check yesterday. His comment...you need to put that money away for our trip to Chicago..trip to Chicago??? I guess HE is going to Chicago. I am so burned out. This has been going on since before the holidays. Is it time to bail or stay :(Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:36 AM on May. 1, 2009 in Relationships
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1) My husband didn't act like that at all when he lost his job. 2) You need to restrict his access to funds. He needs to not even know how much you earn. You need a separate account to protect yourself and he needs a zero allowance ($5 a week) when he realizes that the party is over he will find a job, even a sucky one, just to keep from losing his mind.
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