I am just finishing up with a divorce... how long would you think of waiting before putting yourself back on the market? I don't want the whole falling for the rebound thing... And I def don't want to fall in love again for a while...
I think it's best to wait until you feel "healed" over the relationship. Whether you are just looking to date or are open to a serious relationship, I wouldn't do so unless you really feel OVER your X. Otherwise, a lot of pent up, unaddressed emotions, desires, pain, & needs, may find there way into your dating. I think rebounding is really only an issue when are still "woring out" your old relationship with new people, so you end up projecting a lot from your past on the new person because your drives stem from you unaddressed needs & feelings. So, only you know if you are ready. You'll feel it when you are. Plus, you can't plan out everything in life, sometimes you just have to follow your heart! GL :)
Answer by BubbaLuva at 11:57 AM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by Deidra08 at 11:51 AM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by misspriss_1987 at 11:53 AM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by nairda at 11:54 AM on May. 1, 2009
Sorry, *when you are still "working out"
Answer by BubbaLuva at 11:59 AM on May. 1, 2009