your relationship got to the breaking point and your SO/DH never faught to keep you? How would it make you feel?
Since me and my SO got together there has been 2 times when I was dead ass serious about leaving him and he just LET me go. Literally told me that Icould go and he will do his own thing. I was thinking about it and I asked him how come he never fights for US and he said "I just dont do that" but to me it feels like he doesn't care about our relationship enough or our child to do something about me leaving. He's told me one of those times that if i leave, he's gone, he will pack up and move away and I will never hear from him again. What about our baby?!?!
He's also told me that he knows I need him and that I love him so I won't go. I don't NEED a man and love has nothing to do with it. I can be without him and still love him and I definately dont need him to make me happy.
What are your thoughts?
Answer by Anonymous at 6:02 PM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:05 PM on May. 1, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 6:33 PM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:55 PM on May. 1, 2009
How is it controlling if he lets her leave? I mean I understand what you are saying, but at that point, its more of a hang up for the person who is leaving than the person who is being left.
And I am one of those peoople in the previous post that:
Some People believe that their partner enriches their life NOT makes their life! Sad but true.. they might miss you but know that they would be okay without you ( or any partner) in their life.
But I don't understand why that's a sad truth, I think its healthy. I love my DH, and I have fought tooth and nail for our relationship for his sake and that of our children more than for my own. We did separate for awhile (work) and he was just as miserable as I knew he would be.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:39 PM on May. 1, 2009
Answer by Chrissy629 at 5:29 AM on May. 2, 2009
Answer by Chrissy629 at 5:33 AM on May. 2, 2009