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Not having sex anymore......

I just do not feel like having sex right now. Has anyone else had a low sex drive?? Any ideas on what to do?? I can't even get motivated at all to even think about it. My hubbie is getting very frustrated! And so am I!!!

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:35 PM on May. 1, 2009 in Relationships

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  • are you on Birth control? That can be a factor. I was on the shot and it did affect my sex drive. I just didn't care or not. I still use it because its the best method for me, but at least if I am aware of it, I can deal with it better.

    Answer by Lesli at 7:43 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • I have the Mirena IUD in. It still does give hormones.......

    Answer by 2babygirlsinOH at 7:51 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • same here,.i have the mirena IUD and as soon as i got it my sex drive diminished! wow,.and before i was all over him all the time! since then (taken out) my sex drive has returned! but maybe thats it for you too..the BC?

    Answer by naturepeace at 8:36 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • hummm. well, it will be coming out soon since we would like to try for another baby at the end of summer. Good to know.....

    Answer by 2babygirlsinOH at 8:49 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • check your thyroid levels

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:35 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • well you have to stop and talk to your partner and ask yourself why you have low sex drive. are you just bored ? maybe u should go to a sex party with ur hubby and see if u just need to spice it up some. it that dont help then maybe you should talk to ur dr.

    Answer by tifanyrae at 9:43 PM on May. 1, 2009

  • Me. Mostly because I'm tired alot.

    Answer by lincsmom74 at 12:19 AM on May. 2, 2009

  • it could be any medications your taking, also your thyroid. Try watching a "movie" with your husband and see if that can get you in the mood.

    Answer by pinkcalla721 at 12:50 AM on May. 2, 2009

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