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would you be upset if your So spent more time hanging out with his buddies then with his own family?

yes ive told him how i feel , he doesnt seem to care

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Asked by JrsMommy07 at 10:13 PM on May. 2, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Heck yeah. My husband hangs out with his buddies maybe once a month. Spending time with family is way more important to him than his buddies. Besides, all his buddies have kids and families so they understand.

    Answer by mamaada at 10:16 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • well hell yeah i would be upset...i mean i would allow my husband to go out maybe once every other weekend with the guys..if he had guys to go out with..but he always says that his family comes first. to him the kids and i are his life. he says he doesn't need friends but i know he wouldn't mind going out sometime.but all the time seems ridiculous.

    Answer by 2wndrfl_btrflys at 10:16 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • Yes. If he prefers spending time his friends, why doesn't he marry them instead?

    Answer by Meachan at 10:21 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • yes I have the same issue at home!!! My man works 6 days a week, barely sees his daughter. Yet he always finds something to do with his buddies on Sunday (his one day off a week) :(

    Answer by pamelajqs at 10:22 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • My husband spends alot of time away from our family, he's a recovering alcoholic, been clean and sober 4 years, he goes to meetings three times a week with his fellow sober buddies, afterwards they have coffee, it gets to be too much sometimes, here I am at home with our 3 kids 5, 3, and 6 months. It's hectic. I don't know I guess it's helping him, but it makes me crazy.

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 10:24 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I have been married for 11 years now. I am happy when he is away, lol.


    Answer by savannahnhi at 10:24 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • i would definitely question it. find out why he's spending so much time with them and not with you.

    Answer by m4m4 at 10:35 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • my husband is like that. find your own vice. if he wants to be selfish, you deserve something that makes you happy too.

    Answer by rAbella at 10:38 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • yes I would be pissed and asses would be kicked.

    Answer by nateandlo at 10:42 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • Sounds to me that his priorities are not in the proper order.
    Didn't you see this side of him before you got married.
    I personally would not beable to except being second best and my husband acting as if
    he was a single man.
    My X never could get his priorities in order..still to this day...that is one big reason why he is my X.
    Dumb dumb me at the time, saw it to.
    I would have a heart to heart with your little boy there, and tell him AGAIN and for me it would be the last time...Hey highschool is over you have responsibilities now...

    Answer by Dannee at 10:45 PM on May. 2, 2009

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