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If you knew someone had cheated on his wife, would you tell her?

I'm not very close to them but I do know them. I just had another mutual friend confess that this man, my friend and his wife had a threesome. Well the other guy is married. I asked if the wife knew and he said no. I can't imagine the pain of my husband doing that to me but I don't think I want to get involved and I definitely don't want to ruin marriages.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on May. 2, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • If you are not close to the woman, I would say no. Don't get involved.
    dragonfly7271

    Answer by dragonfly7271 at 10:45 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I would mind my own business other wise it could bite u in the a$$
    mom2fivekids579

    Answer by mom2fivekids579 at 10:46 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • She'll find out on her own anyway, and you won't be involved if you just don't bother.
    Steff107

    Answer by Steff107 at 10:48 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • yes!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I wouldnt tell unless you want problems
    heavenlypeace

    Answer by heavenlypeace at 10:50 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I would want someone to tell me, but if she really does not know you she might not believe you.
    Rachel24517

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 10:50 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • even though i'm sure part of you is tempted, you have the right mindset: you arent directly involved in the drama so bite your tongue! only time I would let the other know is if I knew them very well and considered them a good/best friend.
    Owl_Feather

    Answer by Owl_Feather at 10:59 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I'd say stay out of all that DRAMA! Plus most people don't believe things unless they see it or find out for themselves.
    ShiningStar24

    Answer by ShiningStar24 at 11:01 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • Personally I think wives should know. They have a right to know their dh is out (probably) having unsafe sex. Her health depends on him and that's just unfair to deceive her like that.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:18 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I wouldn't say anything unless the person was a friend of mine...but if they were a friend, I would definitely tell them. I would hope someone would tell me if they heard my husband cheated. But if I wasn't close to the person...than no I wouldn't.
    Ash9724

    Answer by Ash9724 at 11:19 PM on May. 2, 2009

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