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If you knew someone had cheated on his wife, would you tell her?

I'm not very close to them but I do know them. I just had another mutual friend confess that this man, my friend and his wife had a threesome. Well the other guy is married. I asked if the wife knew and he said no. I can't imagine the pain of my husband doing that to me but I don't think I want to get involved and I definitely don't want to ruin marriages.

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on May. 2, 2009 in Relationships

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  • If you are not close to the woman, I would say no. Don't get involved.

    Answer by dragonfly7271 at 10:45 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I would mind my own business other wise it could bite u in the a$$

    Answer by mom2fivekids579 at 10:46 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • She'll find out on her own anyway, and you won't be involved if you just don't bother.

    Answer by Steff107 at 10:48 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • yes!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I wouldnt tell unless you want problems

    Answer by heavenlypeace at 10:50 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I would want someone to tell me, but if she really does not know you she might not believe you.

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 10:50 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • even though i'm sure part of you is tempted, you have the right mindset: you arent directly involved in the drama so bite your tongue! only time I would let the other know is if I knew them very well and considered them a good/best friend.

    Answer by Owl_Feather at 10:59 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I'd say stay out of all that DRAMA! Plus most people don't believe things unless they see it or find out for themselves.

    Answer by ShiningStar24 at 11:01 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • Personally I think wives should know. They have a right to know their dh is out (probably) having unsafe sex. Her health depends on him and that's just unfair to deceive her like that.

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:18 PM on May. 2, 2009

  • I wouldn't say anything unless the person was a friend of mine...but if they were a friend, I would definitely tell them. I would hope someone would tell me if they heard my husband cheated. But if I wasn't close to the person...than no I wouldn't.

    Answer by Ash9724 at 11:19 PM on May. 2, 2009

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