I had to call someone about my child the other day. It was for emergenct mental services. My child kept going under a dangerous bridge and I thought of my child's safety.
After all was said/done, I called my in-laws and let them know it was getting worse and what I had done.
A few min. later, my FIL called and told me that to not call HIS parents and worry them. Because they WILL worry. I have NEVER done such a thing!! I am not THAT disrespectful. Especially of my hub's G-Parents.
He said "I know how YOU like to talk"...I have kept more secrets than most in the family! I know more crap than many of them. And never, EVER once have I "blabbed".
I am honestly hurt, feeling that they don't trust me as they claim that they do and feel that I will no longer let them know what is happening with THEIR G-Kids. Let them find out 2nd hand.
Was what my FIL told me on the phone the right or wrong thing to do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:01 AM on May. 3, 2009 in Relationships
Maybe yes.... and maybe no..... since I don't know you, I can't tell if you have a good perspective on how you come across to people. And since I don't know them, I don't know how they will react to bad news delivered by you about the grand-kids....
If it were me that heard that, then I would do like you and stop sharing info with any of them.
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