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Are you weird like this, like me?

The reason I ask this question is bc one day I was driving home and thought of picking something up for lunch for me and my dh I was going to stop at this place and get down bc the drive thru was so long. But as I drove up there were nothing but trucks with construction men I mean alot and I did not want to get down afterall so I drove off. I don't know why I changed my mind maybe bc I know they would be looking not bc I think I am so fine but you know how men are and that makes me feel so uncomfortable. My mom tells me atleast you are a pretty girl. Let them stare. I am shy around some people I'm like I just want to walk in there and out. But true I ought to be happy I am healthy. I just don't understand why I am this way.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:00 PM on May. 4, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (11)
  • Depends on what kind of mood I am in.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:03 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • You're not alone! I have driven away from places when I have seen guys just hanging around.
    I don't like being followed around stores, etc. especially since I've been married for years!

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:03 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • im the same way. but i think im getting a little more confident now. ive been told that im attractive, but honestly sometimes i don't want people to stare so i'll dress in my pjs and make myself not so attractive so no one will stare as much lol.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I used to be that way, but not anymore. I just don't care anymore. If they look, I'm flattered. If someone would follow me I'd freak out, probably. It's never happened, though.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • i am probly the ugliest person you have ever seen but i attract all the men after they meet me.my husband says they can talk to me very easily and i am very friendly so being pretty isnt everything.i have never had an affair or never would.but i have more men friends....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:16 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • Conceited much?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I don't like to be looked at either, it makes me uncomfortable. At the same time, I kinda glad I'm half way attractive so I CAN be looked at LOL. But either way, it makes me uncomfortable. I just don't like attention, really.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I don't care what they think! If they want to look, look! That makes me feel good. I go to my fathers job occasionally to bring him lunch and there are sooo many construction guys I just don't care.
    Michele068

    Answer by Michele068 at 3:19 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • My husband says he notices that men stare at me a lot, but I don't even honestly notice most of the time if they do. If there are groups of men around, I have found they usually have good manners and will open the door for me and be very courteous. The ones that want to be obnoxious get an earful. It's just the way I am I guess.
    dawpea

    Answer by dawpea at 3:25 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • my husband and my dad are both in the construction business and trust me, they're not always checking you out.....
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 3:28 PM on May. 4, 2009

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