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I know most women say "No" but how do you feel when your husband/so says " he is tired not tonight"?

Pissed off


Asked by Anonymous at 11:37 PM on May. 4, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I have that happen ALL THE DAMN TIME.

    If it happens once in a while, no big deal. But if it happens when I wanted sex because I needed an emotional reconnection with him or if it's happened more than once in a row I feel rejected and hurt and ugly. And mad, because seriously, what 23 year old man turns down a woman as often as I get turned down? It's rediculous.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 11:51 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I give the guy a break...sometimes he is too tired.

    However, if I know he has masturbated that day it hurts my feelings.

    Answer by Nathskitten at 11:41 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • idk honestly. sometimes im like" WHAT?!!" you dont want me? lol but then other times im like "okay,. i know what thatfeels like"

    Answer by naturepeace at 11:41 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I would talk him into it . ( But Honestly I have never had that problem)

    Answer by Shaqbe4u at 11:43 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • I believe him for the most part. then I say "well you won't have to do n e work." and I go down on him or I start out with a massage. I can usually always get it from him. Just have to make it quick

    Answer by Tickledtrauma at 11:48 PM on May. 4, 2009

  • Depends on how much he's doing it. If its all them time then I'm gonna be mad. BUt there are days I know he's tired and doesnt feel like it...just like I get that way sometimes. So unless its ALL the time, I just try again later.

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 11:59 PM on May. 4, 2009