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What is the a major turn off in a man?

I was listening to the radio this morning and they were asking what women get most turned off about a man. Such things as too much chest hair, lives at home with his parents, no job...etc. Just wondering what you women think. Hugs!

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Asked by mrsmendoza2006 at 3:33 PM on May. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I hate when men don't wear deodorant. Believe it or not but I dated some men that don't wear deodorant. Gross!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • chest hair eww I don't like it and dirty socks hehehe


    Answer by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Kid's & an ex-wife. Major turn off.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:35 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Bad Hygene, Body Hair, Lazy, No Job, Womanizer, Abuseive, Perv, Drugs, Alcoholic, and so on...&... on.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Men that don't take care of their obligations and responsibilities. Not having a job, not paying child support, living with family members in order to weasel out of paying bills. (I have no problem with a man who lives with his parents in order to help care for his family) Men who don't have their own transportation...
    Are we talking physical as well? cause I'm freaked out by uncircumcised men, men who lack proper grooming, and nasty teeth lol.

    Answer by tat2edmommyof2 at 3:39 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • lack of confidence...they could be unbelievably attractive but if they lack confidence theyre just blah

    Answer by ReneeLRS at 3:44 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Self-centerdness... ironically often comes across as self-confidence, which I think is why we women are so often drawn to jerks!

    Answer by Adelicious at 3:47 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Bad hygene,
    mama's boy,
    has a crazy mother,
    does drugs,
    is not a christian,
    doesn't work,
    has been to jail,
    drinks all the time,
    has kids but doesnt be a good dad,
    no sense of humor,
    treats wait staff badly
    doesn't pay childsupport

    thats all I can think of right now

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 3:47 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • I would have to agree with another poster. I would never want to be a step mom to someone else's kids. Ruined my sister's marriage. I think it was the ex wife who made their life hell along with bratty kids who wouldn't listen to my Sis because she wasn't "their mom".

    Appearence wise, I would have to say a man who picks their nose. I hate that. How can they stand there in public and pick their nose. Gross.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on May. 6, 2009

  • Greasey hair and all around Ricco Swvayness.

    Answer by lostshel at 4:01 PM on May. 6, 2009

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