I just want to choke him to death right now! I made the biggest mistake ever. I allowed him to be the primary parent because his school district is MUCH better than mine. She also has a brother & sister that go there too, so this also helped my decision. We both have joint physical & legal custody though, & we share time with her 50/50. I guess sometimes.....I'm so glad we're divorced. I now wish that i had primary custody, this is going to be hard to get back. I just feel like he doesn't care as much as I do. I know he loves her to death, but it's those small things that he can't EVER do. Like clip her toenails & finger nails, he doesn't comb her hair, he lets her go to school in clothes are are WAY to small for her, she just had a bout of lice & i asked for him to check her hair often to make sure it's gone..has he? NO. I feel like he puts his needs before her, & this is killing me. How do you other moms deal?
Answer by admckenzie at 4:22 PM on May. 6, 2009