go to a local "toy" store, ask the attendant to help you find stuff that is cheap and fun for your idea. i find its easier to talk to women when i go into a store like that so try to find a woman working. but as far as props..you could get a choker, handcuffs, whip, there are candles that are specifically made for dripping the wax onto the body (not hot at all), wear black leather or pleather lingerie. then tell him that if you say (pick something that would not normally come up in the middle of "playing" that way he knows you are serious, but i'm more comfy knowing if i tell my dh thats enough than it will be and he'll know i'm serious) that means you aren't comfy, but otherwise he's in charge.
if you aren't comfy going to a toy store, you can try doing a google search for adult toy sites so you can buy stuff online.
at 12:00 AM on May. 8, 2009