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Do you ever think about your ex and wish you were with him than with your current partner/baby daddy?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:39 PM on May. 8, 2009 in Relationships

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  • All the time. It kills me but everything happens for a reason I guess.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:42 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • No, because he was emotionally and verbally abusive towards me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:44 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • Yes, mine showed up at my work 2 days ago and can't get him off my mind. I just started here in Oct and hadn't seen my ex in 4 yrs.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:46 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • i dont in any way i left him he treated me like shit and did me wrong. and if yall are thing about your exs then thats wrong of yall theirs a reason there your ex just leave it as that

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • I still do occasionally think about him, even though we haven't seen each other or spoken in over 3 years now. But I think everything really happens for a reason,I don't wish I was with him instead of my husband. I'm by far the happiest I have been with my husband.


    Answer by cynprz at 12:50 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • HECK NO!     badlol!


    Answer by Kauna at 12:53 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • At times yes, but then I see him and realize what a worthless piece of crap he is and it just reaffirms that I made the right choice.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:57 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • I just recently got in touch with one of my exboyfriends and at times i feel like i should still be with him and that i shouldn't have gotten married. ????????????????????

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • That would be HELL TO THE NO!

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 2:01 PM on May. 8, 2009

  • well lemme say this. i knew my ex since I was 16, we started dating at 19, got engaged at 23, then broke up. it was a long journey. near the end he became very controlling, and verbally/mentally/physically abusive. we were becoming adults, eager to go down our own paths. if I stayed with him I would have ended up in a women's shelter, or would have been a stupid vulnerable and trapped woman in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship. I'm happy things ended. I'm happy and blessed to have met my SO and have a baby with him. so I do thnk of my ex a lot since we were together for so long, but I am happy we didnt get married and had a baby. that would have been a bad decision.

    Answer by Owl_Feather at 2:02 PM on May. 8, 2009

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