My good childhood friend has given up his four children. Because his wife of his new child doesn't like them. I am really mad at him right now. Do you think I should just mind my own bussiness or tell him off????
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 1:36 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by mauspond at 1:35 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by raemommy at 1:40 PM on May. 8, 2009
Personally, I couldn't honestly see a friendship going much further with someone who has such completely different values than me. I would tell him how you feel. Only you know where to go from that point. I just couldn't see that person being a huge part of my life anymore, though. Especially, because you didn't say he gave them up because of something like a personal problem (mental or physical or financial) but, because his new family didn't like them. Not that those reasons are excuses but, maybe my friend would need help & support to get his kids back, so I might be more supportive. I just couldn't feel the same way about a person after something like what you described though.
Answer by BubbaLuva at 2:37 PM on May. 8, 2009
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