My son's father only see's him about 4 times a year. We only live 72 miles away but he never comes to see him. Last year he only saw him 4 times for only a few hours each visit and only twice so far this year and that was by me taking him to see his father. He never takes my son to his house. My son has never even met his brother who is 16 months and his new baby brother who is 2 months, both my ex's new kids from his wife of 4 years. He pays CS but has no intrest in seeing him. He doesn't come to birthday parties, school programs, teachers conferences. Does this mean that he doesn't love my son as much as his kids from his marriage. We were never married and my son was a surprise. We were only together for 3 months before I got pregnant and didn't even last two months after my son was born.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on May. 8, 2009 in Relationships
I would "assume" so since he is not making a move on trying to make arrangements to see your son. Heck, my sons father lives in the SAME county as me and my son has not seen him in 5 yrs!!
Answer by SweetKYmom at 4:50 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:53 PM on May. 8, 2009
I think your lucky to be getting child support from him cause it sounds like he is just not that interested in being a "real dad". But..... it could be worse! My kids haven't seen their Dad in 3 years and I haven't gotten a penny in child support.
Answer by VeronicaLee at 4:57 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 5:01 PM on May. 8, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 5:24 PM on May. 8, 2009
It's probably a good idea to teach your son that blood isn't everything. He can have the best father in the world who is not related to him at all. You can make him pay child support but you can't make him care.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:26 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:48 PM on May. 8, 2009
Answer by mother.of2 at 11:28 PM on May. 8, 2009