If your husband, fiance, or SO told you that they were no longer attracted to you. But that if you lost some weight, you could be that person they fell in love with once. My husband decided to tell me that, but he said he understands I gained weight becasue of the pregnancy and I don't get them time to go to the gym...I just don't know how to feel. I mean, should I be mad that he told me he is not attracted to me anymore? Or should I be happy that he said he could be again...?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:31 AM on May. 9, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Magpie75 at 4:41 AM on May. 9, 2009
Answer by 2mothershelpers at 4:42 AM on May. 9, 2009
You should be happy. This is one of the main reasons men cheat. Because it's easier to cheat then to be honest about something so sensitive to a woman. Not being sexually attracted to you has nothing to do with if he loves you or not. Obviously he does love you and trusts that you love him enough that he can be this honest with you. Most men don't feel that way because most women.......... well just don't prove him wrong.
So now you know. Do something about it. Buy a dvd and some weights. You don't need to go to the gym. Once you know a few good exercises you can do them while watching something else. Even standing at the sink washing dishes.
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