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Who comes first your children or your spouse?

I saw this posted a long time ago and was surprised/intrigued by the answers. I want to know if it has changed.

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Asked by nateandlo at 11:31 PM on May. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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  • my children come before my spouse,they come before everyone !!!

    Answer by ashleystoner86 at 11:33 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • My children!!!

    Answer by kgck_momma at 11:36 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • My children always comes first.

    Answer by 2lovables at 11:39 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • My child most definitely!!! Men can come and go, but your child is FOREVER.

    Answer by pamelajqs at 11:44 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • My husband. I believe that our relationship is the cradle for which our children gain security. If we don't have a strong relationship, then our children will ultimately suffer for it.

    My parents had the same philosophy, and it was obvious that they adored each other. While we had no doubt as kids that they loved us, we also had no doubt that they loved each other and held each other in the highest regard. We kids never had a worry that our parents would divorce since it was so obvious my parents were in love with each other.

    Answer by Busimommi at 11:52 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • My daughter, definitiely! Bloods thicker than water!

    Answer by misspriss_1987 at 11:54 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • Kids but then him( hubby) the biggest kid

    Answer by Shelly922731 at 11:59 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • Neither. The decisions are always made for the FAMILY as a whole. I love and trust my husband and I know I would never have to make a decision that negatively affected my daughter for my husband. I am the mommy and it is my job to make sure that everyone is safe and happy.


    Answer by 2-1CavWife at 12:26 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • children- I left the abusing spouse to protect my children.

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:29 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • children are always more important, they need you to survive

    Answer by mandielynn23 at 12:44 AM on May. 10, 2009

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