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how can i tell when i conceived, theres 3 guys that can be a posability

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tweetybird1988

Asked by tweetybird1988 at 11:37 PM on May. 9, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • Sad... very sad.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:48 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • Well best thing to do is be honest about the situation bc u cant changed what has already been done. Just get a paternity test when your little bundle arrives. I wish you the best and ignore the ignorance of people and their harsh critism.
    moe042789

    Answer by moe042789 at 11:51 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • very nice annon.... check w/ your doc sweety and let him know the situtaion and he can prob pin point down to a 3-4 day span good luck and don't listen to the nasty people on here especially if they don't have the guts to put their name on a reply!!!! hope it all works out for you!!! ; )
    NOWLIN8408

    Answer by NOWLIN8408 at 11:51 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • Wow.... I've never BTDT. I guess you'll have to do paternity testing if your Doctor can't pin point a date, or if you were with all three of them within a very short time span.

    Good Luck to you...
    VeronicaLee

    Answer by VeronicaLee at 11:53 PM on May. 9, 2009

  • Your dr. can help you. If you still don't know, you'll just have to tell them all they could be a possibility and wait till you have the baby to have a paternity test.
    BOL to you! Be strong...
    JustPeachy678

    Answer by JustPeachy678 at 12:06 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • Seriously, how insensitive! I think it is best to tell all three, and then wait until baby is born to do the paternity test.

    2-1CavWife

    Answer by 2-1CavWife at 12:11 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • Talk to your doc about due date and count backward. The sonogram will help determine how far along you are and then you can go through which dude it may have been. If though, there were two in one week, that will be impossible to say and a paternity test will be necessary. Not to assume anything but I'd consider STD tests just to be sure all is well. Who knows, could be the fellas are all perfectly fine but just in case.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 12:18 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • There are websites you can go to, and if you know your LMP enter that info and it can calculate an estimate conception date. And If you know what days you had sex with whom, that can help narrow down alot.
    Good Luck !
    I think maybe babyzone.com
    There are TONs, Google conception date.
    babymomma4

    Answer by babymomma4 at 12:36 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • If your periods are regular, you ovulate 2 weeks before your expected period. But you can get pregnant from sex up to 5 days before or 2 days after your ovulation date. It could help you narrow it down, though. You may just have to wait and get a paternity test, though. And don't you love the way the people who are rude don't have the guts to actually sign their name to their reply?
    tyrelsmom

    Answer by tyrelsmom at 12:48 AM on May. 10, 2009

  • DO you know APPROXIMATELY when your period was due? Count backwards 14 days from that date...it's the best approximation but it WILL NOT be completely accurate. If these three men were within the same week, you can ONLY tell through a blood test.

    In any event, a blood test will be your best bet. TIme to face the music and tell them all.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 12:50 AM on May. 10, 2009

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