I have been married for 2 years. When I first meet my husband he was in good physical shape and sexually appealing. He is 6'1. After we married, he started to gain weight... He went from 160-something to 230. He is 29 and I am 31.
He's in the Navy Reserves, so this kind of weight isn't good for his career...It could cause him to get kicked out.
I have been blessed with a great metabolism, so working out has not been a priority; I am 5'5 and 115 lbs. I have tried to encourage my husband to exercise, eat well, like I do, but he shows no desire to do this and our sex life has suffered for the past year because of my lack of desire for his body. His gut is like a 50 year old's beer belly. I have been 'gently' honest with him but I've come to the end of my rope... I am starting to get very angry at the situation because I don't think that a man still in his 20's should look like that. What ELSE CAN I DO FOR HIM??
Asked by Anonymous at 1:54 AM on May. 10, 2009 in Diet & Fitness
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