Im 14 weeks pregnant and oh boy this was not planned! my boyfriend and i have only been together for a little less than a year and we were only living together for a month when we got pregnant.
He has issues with alcohol and drugs that he just cant seem to kick. He refuses to give up his "party-everyday" lifestyle no matter how much we talk about it and how much he promises me. his first goal was to stop drinking/taking pills by easter, but its still an everyday occurance. Now ive never had any problem with addiction but i do know that it is hard, and im sure this baby being a "bad-timing but oh-so-wonderful" suprise isnt helping. He has a great heart and is really looking forward to this baby but the only way he says he can be helped is by getting perscribed more pills.
Im just looking for a lil advise on what to do in my situation. I want to help him become the father he wants to be.
Anything can help ... programs?
Answer by gdiamante at 4:05 AM on May. 10, 2009
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