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how can I approach a guy or make myself noticable for him to be interested?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:57 PM on May. 10, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Call him and ask him out for coffee.
    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 5:58 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • If he does not try to talk to you or ask you out...He is not that into you...Find another guy who is.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:00 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • smile when you see him (and he's looking). Show him that seeing him brightens your day. He will make a move.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:09 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • be confident! flash a smile! approach him and say hello! if you kinda know the guy, ask him out for coffee, or invite him over!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:17 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • Don't smother!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:35 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • My opinion if he hasn't noticed he probably won't . From my experience men seem to only want somehting. When they figure out what it is they want then they will take notice.
    Christy626

    Answer by Christy626 at 7:02 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • I just want to give you advice on what not to do.
    Do not start showing more skin, calling too much, or acting different around him.
    You will attract him for the wrong reasons or turn him off entirely by seeming easy.
    Be kind and extra helpful to him. buy him something maybe.
    amber710

    Answer by amber710 at 7:05 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • Make sure he is not with a ring on his finger.Then flirt away......
    bella69147

    Answer by bella69147 at 7:07 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • bump into him by accident.....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:19 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • ITS ME WHO ASK THE QUESTION, HI EVERYONE THANKS FOR YOUR OPINIONS, I DON'T HAVE A THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE, I JUST WANT A LITTLE ATTENTION TOWARDS BECAUSE ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE ANYONE HAS NOTICE ME, I WAS THINKING LIKE AT A BAR OR A CLUB BUT ALL THE GUYS AT THE CLUB JUST WANT TO GRIND ON YOU AND AT A BAR I DON'T THINK THAT I WILL GET NOTICE, ITS SO HARD!
    kmanivanh1983

    Answer by kmanivanh1983 at 7:57 PM on May. 10, 2009

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