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Is a lesbian grandmother supposed to see her grandkids when she don't see them on a regular basis?

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Asked by 2timemother at 8:07 PM on May. 10, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • Do you have a problem with her being a lesbian?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:09 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • haha what the hell does being a lesbian have to do with it?

    Answer by mizsaxton at 8:09 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • Lesbian or not she should see them on a regular basis.

    Answer by heavenlypeace at 8:10 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • I agree with mizsaxton, what does her choice of life have to do with anything.

    Answer by 214mommydearest at 8:12 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • I don't know if your issue is anger or prejudice, but there is no reason to have one less person to love your child.

    Answer by rkoloms at 8:30 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • She is still the grandmother and should have regular contact with her grandkids, no matter what her sexual orientation is.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 8:34 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • What does being a lesbian have to do with the question?? Is that why she don't see them?

    Answer by Iluvmygirlies42 at 8:36 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • Well, in a perfect world any grandmother would see her grandchildren as often as possible.

    But what's the story behind your question? That's the only way we can really help...

    Answer by madamekatekate at 9:07 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • does she see them cause she wants to by her choice? depends on life style she lives and how she holds her self with you beliefes with raising your children. i am not against being gay by no means but with my daughter im fun what she is seeing and exposed to. i would not want my 3 year old around two woman kissing or sleeping in bed when spending night. being gay is not by choice or i dont think so, but its my choice what i want my daughter to see. i would yes let grandmother see her grandchild only if she respects your beliefes! just hard question to answer with out really knowing the person. there is no one same story to something like this. really think the relationship you have with the grandmother needs to feel good and safe and respect from both sides!

    Answer by mybabygirl32406 at 9:12 PM on May. 10, 2009

  • You shouldn't deny your kids a relationship with their grandparents just because of your own personal feelings.

    Answer by momandvet at 9:28 PM on May. 10, 2009

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