I wasn't going to say anything but my S/O bloodied my nose yesterday. This is his first time ever hitting me! I'm still in shock, its like I'm in a daze because I never suspected him to do this to me. It was over him thinking that I am cheating on him because a very close and long time friend of mine called and wish me Happy Mother's Day. He hit me so hard that he made my nose bleed. I never had anyone strike me like that before, not to make my nose bleed. I put him out and called the cops on him and they issued out a warrant on him. I have so much hatred in my heart for him right now, but in the same token I still want him and want this to work. My mom was pissed and told me he would do it again. I just don't know what to. I'm always the stronger one to pull through. Anybody ever been in this situation, did you let the man come back and get counseling or something?
Answer by Val504 at 2:18 PM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by TheDiva320 at 9:28 AM on May. 11, 2009
Never been hit by a man and if I did, after the first time of doing so he would be gone.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:30 AM on May. 11, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 9:32 AM on May. 11, 2009
My ex hit me one time. We went to counseling over it to try to save our marriage. Then he hit me a second time. I had no family, no where to go, & didn't even want to admit to ANYONE that my family was falling apart. Eventually, my friend opened up her home to me & let me stay there for a year. After that year, i was able to pay for a car & rent life in general. So yes, i did stay. But I thought we should at least try to save our marriage. But, i learned that in reality, there was nothing to be saved. My life is a happy place now, for me & my daughter.
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