OK my older DD father is a ass cause when we was together he told me he had a baby mother but after we find out that we was going to have a baby that when it all came out that it's his wife they been playing the we not togehter game for 2 years then get back together. Will when I find out that they was still married I end everything and move on cause like I told him they need to work things out.
Now after 4 years she still call me cell trying to start thing with me and her dad get mad at me cause I tell her how I feel. His wife try to get me lock up are tell me things about him like I care. So to end everything cause now i'm with someone and we have 3 kids together and happy so I'm tryin g to show him(my new man) the RESPECT he need. So I ask my DD sister if she can be the 3 party so I would not have to talk or see my DD father she told me yes. But the thing is she still let her brother get my # and his wife still play on
Answer by Mz.PhatPhat at 10:59 AM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by NicholeAT at 11:00 AM on May. 11, 2009
Don't make a child the middle person, she is too young for that. Don't respond to the other woman. You are adding fuel to her fire. Leave her alone, ignore all her messages & calls. If DD father calls, talk to him ONLY about DD. If he wants to be an ass, tell him "i called you about DD, i do not wish to have an off topic conversation with you". If he doesn't get it, hang up. There is no reason to talk to him about anything other than your DD. Your both grown, you don't need to get at each other's throats. That's just not mature when you share children, it's actually NEVER mature. Be the grown up here, & treat everyone with respect regardless. You don't have to add any more fuel to the fire. That makes EVERYTHING worse & harder to deal with.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:02 AM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 11:35 AM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by lighthousemom3 at 11:54 AM on May. 11, 2009