I just read the "were you pregnant when you graduated" question. It has 105 answers. And there are so many rude people on here purposely belittling others. Whatever happened to "he who is without sin throw the first stone"? And what happened to this being a support website? Instead of saying "your child is a mistake, but look at me I did things the RIGHT way" but if we looked at your life.. did you really never "make a mistake?" BTW it has always pissed me off when people referred to my pregnancy and son as a mistake cause he is far from a mistake. He was an accident, but not a mistake.
So instead of insulting others for the "mistakes" they've made.. why can't we say "Its okay honey, move forward from this, we'll support you if you need advice let us know" I'm saying whether you've done drugs, stole something, have a disorder, anger problems, or was a preg. teen. NO ONE IS PERFECT. Remember that next time you judge someone.
Answer by stacB at 7:21 PM on May. 11, 2009
Unfortunately that does happen one too often, even in groups you would not expect it to. What I have found is to just ignore those who will eventually realize their glass house will one day shatter. Ignoring them gives you the upper hand and allows you time to move on to better, supporting groups. There's a load of great, supportive groups on Cafemom, we'd love to see you there.
Answer by RMASAdmin at 8:52 PM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by tyfry7496 at 10:04 PM on May. 11, 2009