me and my boyfriend have been together almost 4 years and we have a and a half year old together...but the problem is i love my boyfriend but i dont know if im in love with him...i dont have that sexual attraction to him anymore. i dont want to have sex with him or makeout or those kinds of things first i thought it was just me but the last little while and me being sexually attracted to other guys has me thinking. but i dont want to lose him..i cant see us apart if that makes any sense?? i dont know how to sort out my feelings and im very sonfused has someone been through this?? does anyone have something that can help me??Answer Question
Answer by timelessglass at 6:55 PM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by amy31308 at 6:58 PM on May. 11, 2009
Answer by OneLoveForMe at 7:06 PM on May. 11, 2009
Are you afraid tobe alone? Is that the real question. You been with him for awhile I see. I know what the other girls say about a faze of love. Who goes throw a faze of not wanting to sleep with their partner. I know you love him. I love all my ex. I was in relationship for a long time eight years and never had the problem of not wanting my ex in bed unless I was mad. I would take a little break. Its not fair to him and its not fair to you. Maybe you will realize that you want to be together. Or realize you are done. Sometimes love just ain't enough
Answer by akmami0f4 at 8:48 PM on May. 11, 2009
I go through it also. I love to cuttle with my partner but sometimes making out or having sex isn't what i want. It makes me feel bad because I don't like NOT doing this with him...I just don't WANT it. I love him so much and at times I sleep with him just because he is so good to me and I know he needs to be with me. Sometimes I feel that it's just all the pressures of life that makes me feel this way. The worrying about things I need to do or want to do but can't. Also 2 boys and a girl that his ex never lets him see probably plays a big part in it..but I did realize that when I feel sexy i want to have sex with him..maybe you need to sexy yourself up. Working out also makes you feel better about your body..to the point where you may want to flaunt it to your partner..try that..it works for me sometimes.
Answer by mother.of2 at 12:31 AM on May. 12, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:53 AM on May. 12, 2009
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