So my husband and his ex are pretty close she claims he is her best friend. He talks to her, but she is ALWAYS the one to start the conversation. Recently she has been bringing up their past, their break-up, and a "child" she lost. (Not sure I believe that part, because she was about 6 months along and had a miscarriage from his cousins hitting her stomach -- doesn't make sense to me) Anyway so I told my husband that the next time she brings it up he needs to tell her that he doesn't want to talk about it and it's not appropriate for her to keep bringing it up. It's the past for a reason. He agreed and said he would. But my question is do you see a "motive" here or am I letting it go to my head? She hasn't came out and said she wants him back, but she's said she regrets breaking up with him, and it's just the way she says things. I'm not worried about my relationship I just need to know if I should handle this differently?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 AM on May. 12, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Shelii at 11:00 AM on May. 12, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 AM on May. 12, 2009
I would say it is best if it comes from your husband. You are doing a good thing by staying away from her. He might mention to her that there are support groups on the web like CafeMom. She does need some girl friends and probably women who have "been there." I don't see why a blow to the stomach couldn't possibly detach the placenta and cause the loss of the child? And you posted in the right place.
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Answer by DaffodilFae at 12:24 PM on May. 12, 2009
Ok so I am on pretty good terms with my ex husband as well. I am happily remarried but I do speak to my ex 3-4 times per week, when hes not in jail. The only difference is we have children together. I don't love my ex any more by any means but I like him a whole lot more not being married to him.And far as her pregnancy goes, I wouldn't get into that with him or her to much. It happened before you and there's not a whole lot you can say about it. Good luck.
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