My husband & I are having trouble in our marriage! We aruge all the time and we don't have fun anymore together. I'm not in love with him any more however I don't want to give up because I still love him just not in that way. I was wanting to know if any of you have any ideas to help me get that love back that I had for him? I want to be back in love with him.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:23 AM on May. 12, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on May. 12, 2009
I think it's crazy how people automatically say they "aren't in love" anymore when something like this happens. Don't get me wrong, I've been right where you are, but you have to remember that love is NOT a feeling, it is a commitment, and a choice to be with someone and faithfully commit to being the best wife you can be. It's a choice to be with someone through good times, and extremely bad times. Your feelings are just emotions due to the strain that has been on your marriage. Look at it this way...You probably dated before marrying your H, and I bet you probably started getting strong feelings for your boyfriends at first. I bet you felt those feelings when you met your husband too. Of course it's wore down, that's because those feelings are just a spark and love is ever lasting. I don't think the case is that you're not in love with him, I think it's that you are fed up with how your marriage has been. Cont.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:37 PM on May. 12, 2009
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