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I fell inlove with this guy for years now, the problem is, he isn't ambitious.


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Asked by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on May. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You have a choice,,, leave him,, or stay with him..It's your call.


    Answer by louise2 at 3:37 PM on May. 12, 2009

  • Can you choose to accept him for who he is? Can you love him past his faults? Do you resent him and feel like he is holding you back? Do go ahead and pursue your dreams full force or do you let his behavior dictate yours? Just a few things to think about.

    Answer by ria7 at 3:40 PM on May. 12, 2009

  • i love him and accept his faults.. we love eachother.. but he has no drive to be anything! he doesnt want to get off his lazy ass and i need help!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:41 PM on May. 12, 2009

  • love is not loving part of someone it is loving all of them, you are never truely in love, until you both realize that and feel it with all of your heart.

    Answer by sherlockhlm at 3:42 PM on May. 12, 2009

  • you can't change him so it's either accept him or leave him. it sounds like your finding that part of him to accept which i would find hard to accept as well. it's not like you can pick and choice which traits for your man to have and get rid of. i would say if it's bothering you this much then i would leave. after awhile if you don't accept him it will eat at you and it's not fair to him if you build up resentment against who he is.

    Answer by melody77 at 3:58 PM on May. 12, 2009

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