My mom is my bf. She has been in the hospital for 4 months and we thought she was going to die for so long but she pulled out. Now she is working on coming home. To MY home. My dad has been staying with us, I have 3 kids and DH. That is 6 people, and of course I am DEAD LAST. When my mom comes home she will require a lot of help and a lot of attention. My dad and DH will both be working. DD is 4, DS is 3 and dd is 2 months. I don't sleep at night and I will start online school soon. I am dreading her coming home. I have a lot to do as it is. I'm a SAHM, I get no appreciation, no respect and I sometimes I get very bitter. Am I being selfish for feeling this way? I hate it because I'm glad she is still alive, but I'm not sure I can deal with it. Everyone has been there for my dad, but no one has been here for me. What do you ladies think?
Answer by vabchmommy at 12:10 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by 3_is_enough at 12:08 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by Breezy1988 at 12:09 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 12:10 AM on May. 13, 2009
Have you considered talking to a counsellor or maybe a pastor? Sometimes just getting it off your chest can help. There are also ways you can modify your behavior to get more of the appreciation, attention and respect that you need so badly. Check out our group SWWD :) I hope you can get the help you need and deserve. You can't do it all yourself but no one will know you need help unless you ask!
Answer by TessaBianca at 12:11 AM on May. 13, 2009
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Answer by SusieD250 at 1:35 AM on May. 13, 2009
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