My bf is living in Cali and is planning an Ohio wedding. I am MOH. She is here this week and she wants to go to Columbus for one day(about 1.25 hrs away). I told her over the weekend I am not comforable driving bc my check engine light is on. She asked if I could drive my husband's car and I said no bc it's on it's last leg and we've been carpooling nearly everywhere. She asked why can't you just get it fixed... and we are closing on our house and have to pay 2-3K in closing costs. Now her sister won't drive either bc her brake light is on. So we're kind of in a rut. We also found out my due date is changed to Jan 3rd, the day I was planning her bridal shower. So now she wants me to hand everything over to her sister and is mad that she'll have to help prepare for her own shower bc she thinks I could ruin it with a baby. I woke up to a text saying we have to sit down & talk my feeling are really hurt. What do I doAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by 2wndrfl_btrflys at 10:32 AM on May. 13, 2009
Wow that's really rude. I'd tell her that you had wanted to do something nice for her and thought it would be fun but if she's going to act like this over the course of the next 8 months then she needs to find someone else. I realize it's her day, but there are other people in the world besides herself, and it's not even CLOSE to the wedding date, and if you think this is bad, wait until 30 days till D-DAY. Tell she isn't being a very good friend. Tell her she could have rented a car herself. Tell not to talk to you again or bother you with any wedding plans.. ESPECIALLY if she took away all your responsibilities for it, then you shouldn't have to hear her bitch when things go wrong. I'd also tell her not to expect a gift.. but that's just me.
Answer by s.teph at 10:44 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by LuckyClown at 10:44 AM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by TessaBianca at 10:47 AM on May. 13, 2009