Why do I care so much what people say about my relationship (untrue)?
DF and I are going through a rough patch with a now ex-friend of his. and this friend of his is degrading us like no other to my DF (and now his little "g/f" is messaging me). saying we're not happy, we're getting married for the wrong reasons, and the one that gets me the most--that our 5 1/2 month old son isn't my DF's! (he looks just like him! and I have NEVER been unfaithful, EVER! DF is my ONE AND ONLY!)
Theres obviously alot more to the story, but I just want to stop caring what people (who don't mean SHIT to me) say about me and or my relationship.
DF & I have been together 4 1/2 years, getting married in less than 4 months, and we're totally and completely happy and in love!
So why do I get SO upset when people, (not only this guy) degrade my relationship by saying untrue things? And how do I STOP?! It gets me every time...
Asked by Anonymous at 3:03 PM on May. 13, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 3:07 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by Shelii at 3:12 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:13 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:28 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by hug4akiss at 4:30 PM on May. 13, 2009
Maybe his friend just doesn't like you and he knows that marrying you will take a little more guy time away. Too bad. If he was a real friend to your DF, he'd be happy just to know that your DF is happy. Sounds like he's trying to control and manipulate your DF. . .
admckenzie is absolutely right. Don't let other people steal your joy!! YOU have the power to choose what will get your attention; negativity should have 0 seconds of your life!! Remember that!
BTW- Congratulations!! Do you have a dress yet? If so, are there pictures?
Answer by cary717 at 4:37 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by Tickledtrauma at 4:39 PM on May. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:51 PM on May. 13, 2009