I'm sure you enjoy a clean home, because its upsetting you that it is messy. Have your children help you, they love to help and you can tell them that you'll take them to McDonalds afterwards. However, you should take a few days off yourself when you can and have hubby understand why you need the time off and that you'd like the same treatment you hve him, when he needed some L & R. Sit down and tell him you understand him butit would be nice if he helped you first before he left in the future.
at 11:19 AM on May. 14, 2009