Well a few weeks ago she, her dad, and I got into a big fight. She wn't do what she wants in her wedding and she cried to me and her dad that she wanted an outside wedding and I told her that if thats what she wanted thats what she would get! And I meant it! Well her mother-in-law told Keisha that it just wouldnt work out that way and she said no. I know that it hurt Keisha but she is the type of person that des what ever eveyone else want her to do. So she went along with it. And I am pissed because after crying her eyes out to have an outside weding se will not have one just because the mother in law doesnt want her to. And now she will not talk to me,she says that I stick my nose in her buisness just because I told her mother in law to keep her nose out of it. I told her that it wasKeishas weddingadn to let her do what she wants.Now sh dont want me at her wedding!!! Was I wrong? If so what do I do to make it righAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by nursinghannah at 10:54 AM on May. 15, 2009
Talk to her and tell Keisha she can have it her way do what will make the bride happy.
Why is the MIL getting into her business anyway (unless she is paying for the wedding) if so then let things be.
If not let Keisha have her wediing the way she wants this is her day and no body else's.
Talk to her and tell her you are on her side no matter what let the MIL be the bad guy. which she is being one. GOOD LUCK KEISHA I PRAY ALL WORKS OUT FOR YOU!!!!
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 10:55 AM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by okmommy08 at 10:56 AM on May. 15, 2009
What PP? Make sure her dad doesn't go that is crazy. I would calmly try to talk with her again with her dad and if she still doesn't want you there then don't go. If you go it will make things even worse. I think it's sad that it has come down to that over some petty stuff and I hope it all works out for the better.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:57 AM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by happy1mom at 10:59 AM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:16 AM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by AndrisMom at 3:44 PM on May. 15, 2009
Sit down with your daughter. Apologize for making things harder for her with her future mother-in-law. Tell her that you love her and will support any decisions she makes. Choose another time, place, and issue to discuss any "assertiveness" issues you feel she has.
Then go to the wedding and enjoy her big day.
Answer by kaycee14 at 10:04 PM on May. 15, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 9:53 AM on May. 16, 2009
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