Last feb. my husband lost his job, then we lost our house, our son was only 6 months old. We moved to Florida, where I am from and in with my dad, well my husband didn't find a job until October 2008, and then got layed off in April, my dad then began hating my husband because he wasn't taking care of his family properly. So we moved in with my mom, back to North Carolina. We're also expecting baby #2 in 5 weeks, and our son is 21 months old. Yes we have a lot of issues but my husband and I never have time alone since we have been living with other people, and we have no money to do anything. We've drifted apart almost completely, our sex life is non existant and we just don't communicate anymore at all. I feel like we should separate because we're constantly bickering and putting each other down. But I love him, and we're fixing to have another baby, I want my family together, I'm tired of fighting.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:54 AM on May. 16, 2009 in Relationships
We attack the problem, not each other.
It works.Â We are a 1 income family with LOTS of expenses, not enough $$ coming in, but we don't fight.Â You need to get back in sync with him.Â Maybe write him a heartfelt note, or take him out to dinner and sit him down and talk.Â Remind him of all the things that made you fall in love with him in the first place.Â Tell him that you are done fighting (and mean it).Â If he starts fighting, just say, "I'm not fighting with you anymore" and walk away.
Answer by Kauna at 8:12 AM on May. 16, 2009
I suggest you 2 tough it out and not be so quick to leave each other and file for divorce. Marriage isn't easy and it's something you have to work on everyday. There are going to be tough times and you just have to work through them. Your hubby needs to get up off his butt and find a job now, even if it's at a fast food place.
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