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If you have...did your first time hurt?

did you first time having anal hurt?...this may seem like an awkward question..but answer anonymously if you would like!

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:16 PM on May. 16, 2009 in Health

Answers (14)
  • Hurt sooooo bad. I will never do it again!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:17 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • oh gosh! thats what i heard!..its my fear!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:19 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • Actually no. Just lube up and relax your muscles. It also helps if you are already aroused.

    Answer by MythicMMM at 6:20 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • hurts like a mofo! dont do it!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:22 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • Yeah, it was pretty uncomfortable. I guess it would depend a lot on the size of your man too & my hubby is "well endowed" LOL. I would suggest a good lubricant & be gentle/patient @ first don't just let him jump right in!!

    Answer by whispers2005 at 6:24 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • WOW it hurt so bad i almost punched my DH and he never tried again. It causes alot of problems and you can get anal infection, not safe at all, I have had problems since that first time and i also know someone that has had surgery several times already.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:31 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • why is this in the teen 13-17 section???

    Answer by Krystle21 at 6:33 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • First why would you want a man to do that to you? in my opinion  it is disrespectful and dirty


    Answer by Anonymous at 6:55 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • I agree with Anon 6:55.
    That's just gross. I have no problem with people doing that, whatever makes you happy.
    It's just disrespectful.
    Plus it could damage your rectum and anal area to the point where surgery is needed.
    I wouldn't suggest doing it in the butt.
    Doggy style is okay ~ as long as it goes in the right hole. lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:11 PM on May. 16, 2009

  • OMG, Anal is back bending toe curling! I am an anal whore :) LOl I know that sounds skanky but its very VERY pleasurable when done correctly and when relaxed, there are times I dont do it, and you will know as soon as your man goes to put it in weather or not it will be a bad experience, but really If you havent tried it, you should...some people hate it, some LOVE it, it depends on you really-Im not saying you will think its as amazing as I think it is, but you might be suprised!
    also this may sound nasty-but what always gets me in the mood for it and relaxes the muscles is having my man go down on me and give me a rim job at the same time, as soon as he starts even close to going "DOWN" there I get super relaxed and it just eases in. not to mention its a good source of free lube!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:59 PM on May. 16, 2009

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