I have a great husband. Works hard. Loves me. Treats me right. But... I question the amount of time - quality time - he spends with his daughters. What started this right now is that I'm working on my 6 yr olds bday party. I'm having 8 little 7 year olds at the mall for a scavenger hunt and dinner and cake. I need his help wrangling the kids, taking the presents to the car while I stay inside with the kids, getting food to the tables in the food court, etc. He golfs on Fridays, but this is the day he thought would be best. Now he is complaining that I need his help and suggests that I find another way "to make it work."
I don't like being a nag. I want him to WANT to be there for me, for his daughter. But unless he is going to do it with a smile on his face, then I have a tendency to just deal with it and let him do his own thing... then me and the girls suffer. He needs to spend more time with them - ENJOYABLE time. argh!
Answer by LilChynaDollie at 7:54 PM on May. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on May. 17, 2009
Answer by terrikwv at 6:51 AM on May. 18, 2009