First it started when you were pregnant people would always say how much your life would change and things will never be the same etc We had our first son and yes it was a change but my world wasn't turned upside down I learned to adapt and continue on with my day to day.
Then came bonding with your child once he/she was born. I never got the whole bonding thing. Yes I love my sons to pieces and think everything they did as a newborns was so cute and wonderful but no there were no fireworks or this major epihany. Sometimes things just are what they are and that is good enough!
Oh and how could I forget.. The TRANSITION! If I heard this word anymore throughout my 2nd pregnancy I was going to snap! Everyone kept saying how the first born acts out and "how will he transition?" Well we did just fine thank you! Just like anything in life it's only a big deal if you let it be. Anyone else agree?
Answer by Bmat at 2:32 PM on May. 19, 2009
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Answer by Bmat at 2:33 PM on May. 19, 2009
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Answer by BJoan at 3:32 PM on May. 19, 2009