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What do you think about erotic novels??

For a woman that has some diffuculty getting aroused b/c of a gynecological issue, do you think it's ok to read a steamy excerpt from a erotic novel to get things going or is that unfair to my husband?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:20 PM on May. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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  • If that what helps you to get aroused, I don't see a problem with it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:22 PM on May. 20, 2009

  • Girl, there's nothing wrong with it--you're helping him out! Anything that helps--assuming he isn't put off by the idea--is fantastic...if he's iffy about it...try having him read it to you--maybe that will get him 'in the mood' too! :)

    Answer by goofygoober168 at 5:06 PM on May. 20, 2009

  • I say go for it! Nothing wrong with a little healthy fantasy...

    Answer by ozarkgirl3 at 6:00 PM on May. 20, 2009

  • Why does it matter where you got the appetite when your spending it on him? Go for it!!

    Answer by isabellalecour at 6:22 PM on May. 20, 2009

  • In general I think they are a farce... but if you are using them as a sexual aide.. do what works!!! Enjoy your life!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on May. 20, 2009

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