i feel like total shit about myself since having my baby - My weight and body i just hate so much. I love my daughter and when i get in these moods i just look at her and it doesnt matter what my body looks like... but my boyfriend constantly makes comments if he see's a good looking skinny girl on tv... yes this is totally allllll my insecurities but i cant help it... i hate my body and myself and i wanna find ways to get my self esteem up.... i lost weight since having her but im not like i use to be, which i know i never will but i wanna try my best to get back to it.... any suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:04 PM on May. 20, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)
"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new." - Rajneesh
I love that quote, I think it speaks to me as a new mom. I get upset at my "new" body, but there are some things that are not going to change. I am doing my best to loose the extra weight, but I can't do anything about the fact that my breasts resemble tube socks, lol. I am learning to move forward as the new me, its not easy by any means. But I have learned that I can't change what "is", but I will make the best if what I have. And I have a beautiful little girl who doesn't care what I look like, she just loves me for who I am - mommy :)
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