I have 2 adopted kids that I adore, I adopted them from my sister becuase she is a substance abuser. My kids know they are adopted. I have been thinking for awhile I wanted the kids to meet and see their biological dad, just so they would know who he is and where they came from. My kids are 6 and 7. Is this to young or should I even allow them to meet him?Answer Question
Answer by okmommy08 at 9:06 AM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:27 AM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by PortAngeles1969 at 1:27 PM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by mexicanbeauty at 1:49 PM on May. 21, 2009
I would be very cautious about your children seeing their birth mom. Mine were allowed, and now this is biting me in the butt. My daughter is pregnant and she screens her emails, will not allow her to talk to me. She is really making life rough. I would have times when you are there with them, because if they were an addict chances are they will be very manipulative in the situation.
Answer by Anonymous at 4:14 PM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by MAyers at 8:34 PM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by 4mom247 at 11:07 PM on May. 21, 2009
Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 12:02 AM on May. 22, 2009
Thank you all for the advice, I really appreciate it. I adopted both the kids because the dad did not feel he could be a single Father and he knew I would take care of the kids also because my sister is on drugs and has been for years. Both my adoptive children know they are adopted, they came from Kimmy's belly and mommy's heart. They know my sister but we are not really close, I do not like her being in and out of their lives. The kids have asked about the dad, and recently found out he was robbed and stabbed and could have died, so I reached out to him and asked did he want to see the kids. He was very grateful and wants to see them, I talked to the kids and they are excited to see him.
Answer by Tinamarie79 at 6:38 AM on May. 22, 2009
Answer by PortAngeles1969 at 11:15 AM on May. 22, 2009
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