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who is more dominant in your relationship... you or your partner?

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jaksonsmommy

Asked by jaksonsmommy at 5:26 PM on May. 22, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Depends on the day and the situation.
    Teachermom01

    Answer by Teachermom01 at 5:28 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Me. I'm aggressive and DH is passive.....until he's PISSED! lol
    vicki136

    Answer by vicki136 at 5:28 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • I would love things to be 50/50 but Dh has no common senseor money sense and he is not organized. He has a very high I.Q and has ADD. Sometimes his desicions are a little unreal and I have to step in and redirect him. He is my third child.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:31 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Lol anon:31
    I feel the same way- Im the law maker in my home, my husband acts like a kid and though I love it because it keeps me young, I often wonder why he has more fun in the basement playing in my sons band than up stairs with me, or out with his own friends.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:39 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • vicki136
    Me. I'm aggressive and DH is passive.....until he's PISSED! lol
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    Me too. I can't stand it sometimes. Most things he just doesn't have any gumption to care about unless it's the one or two things that do matter to him. THEN he wants to take over lol. Other than that, it's "honey, did you take care of this?" or he's making me decide what we're going to do. It's not even a shyness or a domination thing...he just doesn't care. Decisions as simple as where to sit at a restaurant, what restaurant to go to or what onesie to put on our son he doesn't have enough motivation to decide on his own. At work though...he's Mr. Bossy-Take Charge-Super-Hero-Man.
    NovemberLove

    Answer by NovemberLove at 5:57 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • i agree with the anons :)
    crystaleve29

    Answer by crystaleve29 at 5:57 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Me.

    Or, as my DF would probably say:

    The scary woman is in charge.

    LOL!
    _Jynxx_

    Answer by _Jynxx_ at 6:20 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Me.
    lstrickland

    Answer by lstrickland at 6:32 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Me.
    lstrickland

    Answer by lstrickland at 6:33 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • He's the body and I'm the brain. works pretty well. neither of us dominate.
    BubbysMom208

    Answer by BubbysMom208 at 7:02 PM on May. 22, 2009

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